When you keep taking the bar girl time after time she will start loving and missing you. Some warning signs are:
- She will send you several SMS per day telling you she miss you.
- She wants to go with you doing things.
- She will wait in your favorite nightclub.
- She will call and say sorry if she goes with another customer.
- She might get jealous if you go with another girl.
- She will start buying you gifts and put her stuff in your place.
- She might go down in price or go with you free (watch out).
This might not be a bad thing for some people but if you are constant butterfly, you will find that having many Thai girls sending you strange SMS all day long will enjoy you. If you taken a free ride you are rather hooked on this girl and she might consider you, a boyfriend and getting rid of her will cost you.
I had a friend that after 6 years of free bumping wanted to end what he thought was a nice thing from both part. The girl simply said ok no problem here is the bill for sex month of service honey.
There is no love in this equation but the bar girl think you want to hear that so they will love you and miss you and care for you as long as you take care of them. Most bar girls are very tired of change customers all the time and tired of having sex so when they find one that is nice they try to catch that butterfly. Nevertheless, as you know when you have a boyfriend girlfriend thing going on you stop having sex and the Thai bargirl knows this as well.
For bar girls, I have a dual-sim phone. One number I give them, another I give to people who I don’t meet in bars. When the “i miss you, when you going to see me?” SMSs get to be a bit much, I yank the second sim and go dark for a while.
One trick a few girls have tried is hiding their panties, or some other unmistakably female item in my apartment. And for some reason all the other bar girls know just where to look to see if you have been ‘cheating’ on them.
God, I love the game.
Rule #1: Don’t fall in love with bar girls
Rule #2: Only take a girl once
Whats rule number 3?