Do Thai bar girls lie more than others Thai girls?
I came across a funny picture on this bar girl blog and it made me think if bar girl’s lie more than normal Thai girls. I know many bar girls and I know many normal Thai girls and I can honestly say without lying that bar girls does not lie more.
I took this up with a girl that work as a secretary in a big hospital (not a bar girl) and I explained to her what foreigners think about Thai girls and lying. First she told me the normal story that I met the wrong people, but after 10 years in Thailand I think I met pretty all kinds of people.
This is my sister – Not!
We then went on to the first lie that a foreigners might meet when he meets a Thai girl and that is the “this is my sister lie†and for a Thai person this is not a lie but for a western person it is. Close family is something we keep dear in our hearts but in Thailand that can include the entire village. The girl she call sister can be a cousin or simple a girl she hang out with a lot. You also have a lot of mixed marriages with second wife’s (Mia Noy) in Thailand so one man can have many different children.
You are so handsome, sexy man
It is almost impossible to get an honest opinion in Thailand and even my friend Thai friend agrees. When you walk into a shop the seller tells you that everything you try on looks stunning on you and even if you look like a moron they won’t tell you. They want to sell off course and then the Thai people are all about making you happy and avoid any confrontations.
So this sort of behavior moves down to the Thai bars girls off course they want to make you happy because they want to get paid. The more happy you are the more they will get paid it is very logic.
I am a student – jing jing
The bar girls works like a present with wrapper on it. They want to make the wrapper looks as nice as possible so they tell you all kind of things like
- I am a student (I study English with foreigners)
- I never been to this bar before (today)
- I do not have a boyfriend (at least not tonight)
- I never been to Pattaya (not this week)
- I never been abroad (I lost my old passport)
- I always use condom (well almost all the time)
- I do not have a baby (I have 3)
- I am not married (not with a foreigner)
- I like girls (if you pay me well enough)
- I like sex (I did 10 years ago now I just like to sleep)
- I do not take drugs (I eat all kind of sleeping pills)
Well you know the list can go on and on but you get my drift it is not really lying they are making the wrapper look better on the outside.
So I am sorry to tell you, you are not a sexy handsome man you are just another fool in paradise.
After reading this story do you think the Thai girls from Pattaya needs to take the pill or not? All the credit for the picture goes to the Dave Rave site.
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Ha ha ha ha now that was good and VERY accurate I might add. My first trip over there and I got the Daily Double as I met the “brother” and the “sister” within 2 days of each other. Of course they both and my “friend” all had ZERO compatible features but this article really cracked me up. The part about “sleep” is really true as bears sleep less during hybernation than some of these girls! We went to Udon Thani and met her “family” and to this day I bet not one of those people were even related to her. Oh well these are the things that give us great stories to tell, I guess. Good article it had me cracking up!
Glad you like it 🙂
wow nice blog ….
thank you i delete your link btw
met a thai girl at a night club she was pissed took her back to my hotel we had sex next day she tell me this is the first time she done this and i am the second guy she sleep with (haha)becouse her best friend passed away she got drunk and did not want to go back to her place were her friend stayed with her ..she said she worked at a nursing home had her own car flat wow they must pay well ..so i played on letting her think she got the best of me and boy she did it good at times i was falling for it all… i stayed with her fr a week she never asked me for a penny but was promsing her the world.. on my return to the uk we kept in touch would talk every day almost on msn that is (wise) the call got weird she was drunk most of the time we talk and the rubish that came mix word one min i am going to sleep 2 hours later she,is clubing anyway to cut a long story short she was planing a master plan trying to make me fall deep in love then before she even say told me i know what was coiming next ohh one of my firend into me to prostution i am short on money iwhat should i do and so on anyway i played along do what u have to next time i went to thiland i met her
she first swear blind to methat she did not do anything or met anyone even before i asked her i played it cool i did my home work and had found much about her she had suger dady bf aound the worl boy she was bad news but the fun was i nkew it all and the lies just keept coming out lie then another lie to coverthe first lie
… guys be carefull .. with this one but the good thing is sheonly got a few drinks from me and a dinner i got lotsof banging and free ride all over bangkok on her credit beat that guys …………
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